After the epic return of Seyi and Tacha back to the Big Brother Naija house, things became really uncomfortable and different. The housemates started gossiping about them, mostly about Tacha and they didn’t hide their displeasure as it was written all over their faces.
— Big Brother Naija #BBNaija (@officialBBNaija) July 24, 2019
While they tried to settle in for the night, Tacha, on the advice of Sir Dee, had approached Mike so they could try and understand each other after their squabble on Sunday. She appreciated his honesty with her during his speech and spoke a lot about the reasons she was so closed off from the other housemates and her struggles in life. She also tried to make things clear between them and apologised for insulting him and making him look bad.
Tacha to Mike: I didn't expect you to say anything okay. Well I'm real so I prefer your honesty to me at the table. I don't like when people smile in my front and say shit about me at my back.
Me: where are the people that thought she got bruised by Mike's speech? #bbnaija pic.twitter.com/CD4J0uWDHY
— Mimi (@Emiliadoc1) July 24, 2019
When she finished, Mike reacted to her talk and eventually apologised to her about their fight on Sunday, which he admitted was his fault.
— mimi (@maryamdolce) July 24, 2019
Mike said a whole lot to her during that discussion they had. Mike said Tacha that she thinks she is better than everyone else and is projecting her misery to someone else. He told her, “Instead of counting the days, make the days count.”
— Lawrence Evra Okoro (@LawrenceokoroNg) July 24, 2019
He also told her, “I am not a regular guy, you may have watched my video but you don’t know my background. Don’t project your misery unto others. There’s confidence and there’s arrogance. I don’t see the confidence. Don’t make it difficult for people to understand you. You don’t respect who disrespects you. Listen more than you talk.”
And guess what Tacha said after the talk? She said, “I can’t change because I can’t be another person, but things will be better!” Even her looks when Mike was speaking to hear proved that he got through to her. And while she was making her point, she started to drop tears from her eyes.
— debbyejiro (@deezclothing) July 24, 2019
That’s a lot coming from Tacha. The truth is while she was in the secret room, Seyi had done the preliminary work on changing her attitude so when she came back and Mike gave that speech at dinner and thereafter, Sir Dee spoke to her about the perception of her by other housemates in a loving manner, she just had to cave in.
— Kay (@Kay41079131) July 24, 2019
At the end of the day, when you get close to someone and you make an effort to understand his or her struggles, you just might be able to make them better versions of themselves, which is what he did.
— ocha-🌸lin💐 (@nellehdee) July 24, 2019
— Akpabio's Boy.🇳🇬🇳🇬 (@edidiongvictor7) July 24, 2019
The truth is change is the only thing that stands between Tacha and winning.. If she eventually changes for the better, many people will love her more.. Her strategy is a topnotch.